What to Do When Your Style Feels Stale

I have periods of time when I get a little antsy, and want to change up a ton of decor, and others where I am content with how my home or space is. I think we all have waves of inspiration when it comes to decor, and that’s fairly normal! Of course as an interior designer, I feel more inclined to be thinking about design and style more than a typical person, but I also want my home to be a peaceful space where I feel content. It’s always a balance! Today, I want to talk about what to do when you feel like your style doesn’t represent you anymore, and how to handle it:

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1. Figure out if it’s the decor, or if it is something else in your life: Sometimes, we can want to change our decor because something in our lives feels chaotic. I have definitely been there, and have found it’s really healthy to take a few days to assess what is adding stress to your life. Sometimes it’s not decor, but it’s a lack of organization and sometimes, it’s too busy of a schedule or a stressful family situation. Before making drastic decor changes, take a day to breathe and see if there are other factors at play.

2. If you decide something about your decor is bothering you and you still want to change it, begin with cleaning and decluttering: Purge things you don’t use anymore, put away laundry, and organize things into bins or into storage that you don’t need in that specific room or space. This will give you a nice, neutral canvas to start with, and let you see what you’re working with.

3. Begin by deciding what color scheme or decor you are going for. If you are struggling to decide what might go together, consider building a storyboard or a Pinterest idea board to find things that you love. Look for common themes in things you “pin”, such as if you always gravitate towards a farmhouse style, or that you love the color blue. If you’re looking to make a large change, consider hiring someone for a consultation and help. Here at AWD, we would love to help guide your choices to build a space that reflects your needs.

4. Set a budget: If you are on a tight budget, begin looking at what you can use that you already own. If you hate the style of your photo frames or a gallery wall, maybe you can paint them to one neutral color and reuse them, or use chalk paint to cover an ugly nightstand into something more usable. You’ll never regret giving a piece second life with paint, and if you don’t love it, you will be more likely to sell it on Marketplace or Craigslist with a fresh coat! If you have the budget, consider high quality items that will last, from estate sales or higher-end furniture stores.

Changing your decor can feel overwhelming, but that’s where we come in. We love working with our clients to bring their vision to life. Call us today! 

What's it like to Work With Us?

Whether you’re an Allure bride, or you just want to change your interior design aesthetic, you may be wondering what’s in store if you choose us as your designer. The Allure with Decor experience is one that is unlike any other, with quality customer care. In fact, we treat you like our friends and family, rather than a name and a number. We customize each and every consult, appointment, and wedding to suit exactly what you have been dreaming up. Here’s what you can expect:

• Timely communication: We return our messages, phone calls, and text messages in a timely fashion, which means you’ll never be left hanging. When you first book with us, we will provide all the details, pricing, and information you will need, because surprises are never fun when you’re trusting someone with your vision!

• Transparency: We love talking to you, and you can expect honesty. We will listen to your budget and help you choose items that fit the aesthetic and ideas that you have, while staying within your financial lane. If you are concerned about getting roped into something you can’t afford, rest assured that it won’t happen with us.

• Modern, classic, and current trends: If you want classic, we can do classic! But we also stay educated and up to date on the latest design trends, colors, and materials (like paint and hardware) so that we can provide you with ideas and inspiration that are fresh.

• Experience: Above everything else that we want you to know, it’s mostly that our experience speaks for itself. Our clients love working with us, and feel cared about. If you want to hear from clients who have worked with us, click on over to our reviews page. We would love to share what makes us so special!

Organizing Your Home After the Holidays

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New year, new me! …Well, maybe not. But I always feel motivated after the holidays to make crucial changes in my organization, and it’s never too late to get started! Although we are well into January now, I find myself still purging and organizing plenty of things around my house, and I wanted to share some tips that help me stay tidied up and get situated after I pack up all that holiday decor. Maybe the urge feels a bit stronger this year because of the strange-ness of 2020, but I’m here for it! Here are some ways to keep you chipping away at the clutter:

-Tackle just one thing a day (or week): If you’re a busy mom at home with littles, you may only get to one “project” a week, but if you have older kids or no kids, you will possibly have a bit more time to knock out some bigger projects. The goal of one a week is attainable for almost everyone, and I recommend that you create specific things rather than entire rooms. If your goal is “master bedroom”, I think it may feel looming and overwhelming. Instead, be specific, like, “my half of the closer in the master bedroom”. Put it on your calendar, so you stay accountable!

-Don’t be afraid to invest in some storage: If your storage is broken, nonexistent or ugly, it’s okay to invest in some great pieces from a big box store! You’ll be surprised what a few plain glass or plastic canisters can do in your pantry when. you add pretty labels, or that simply adding under the bed bins can increase your storage tenfold! Set aside a little cash to hit up your local big box stores or order from somewhere like Ikea, so your storage matches and looks more cohesive. You’ll feel better about the aesthetics if you have some matching, neutral bins. If a local small business or hardware store sells these, even better!

-Organize your holiday stuff before you put it away: Nothing is worse than unpacking the holiday items in December only to discover tangles of lights and broken glassware or wooden decorations with pieces snapped off. I recommend assigning certain bins to your holiday decorations, and storing them carefully. When you pack them up, add newspaper or bubble wrap to keep things in good shape, and pack them in the reverse order of how you want to unpack them. That way, your most immediate needs to be accessible early on when you begin to decorate! Take the time to do it right, so you don’t have to waste the time when you just want to put your decor up!

-If you haven’t used something since last year, it can probably head to Goodwill or be donated to someone who might want it. Don’t be afraid to purge out your home from the things you don’t use, so that you can free up space and not feel so cluttered. Did you know your good used condition items are tax deductible at Goodwill? You can get a receipt online, so save them up until the next time that you do your taxes! Items must be in good working order to be deducted.

Stay tuned for more organizational and home tips!

Cozying up in Your Home Office

Whether by choice or not, many of us are working from home these days. Although it comes with its own challenges, one of the small perks is that you can make it a space that you truly love. Making a cozy, livable space where you can work is something important as we head into the colder months, where there is a lot less natural daylight, and where we are in front of our screens even more. Here are my best tips for making a workspace that you may not want to leave!

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-Decide on a calming color palette: While bold red might sound fun and bohemian, it may not be something that you can look at for hours and days at a time. Soothing tones like white, beige, grey, blue, and even blush can be more palatable for a place where you’ll need to be sitting for long lengths. Calming colors can create a cozy feeling even in a small space, and can also make a space seem larger.

-Invest in some quality organization: A chaotic, cluttered space will always seem smaller and more frantic. TJ Maxx and Home Goods have tons of plastic organization that is also pretty, and can get all your papers, files, cords, and other necessities in order. If you don’t have an actual office and are sharing it with a bedroom or common area, consider organizing other parts of the room so you can concentrate without distractions like laundry heaps or junk drawers.

-Get blue light glasses: These are not only good if you get migraines or headaches from screen time, but they are also super cute. They can become part of your “at home” wardrobe. While we are on the topic, one thing that helps as you work from home is to get some polished but comfy clothes. Nicer items than just pajamas, and things that can be seen in public (no, not those ratty t-shirts from college!), but nothing too stuffy that would be uncomfortable after a few hours. We love the Barefoot Dreams line from Nordstrom, which are pricier, but they still look put-together.

-Surround yourself with things you love: Your favorite scent, a beautiful candle, pretty books, fresh flowers…these are all touches that will ground you and make your office feel like it represents you and your personality. Anthropologie always has the best candles, and anything with just a touch of spice (like cloves) will also freshen up your desk or table and keep it from smelling musty.

Working from home has it’s perks, and having a sweet little home office is just one of them!

The Comforts of Home

Our little valley of Southern Oregon has had a difficult week. Since Tuesday, wildfires have torn through our surrounding cities, and left destruction in its wake. So many are suffering and it’s caused so many of us to reevaluate our priorities and hold our loved ones close. The comforts of home become even more important in crisis, and making your home a peaceful haven is something that gives your family stability and support during challenges. Here are some ways I always make sure our home is welcoming:

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-Scents: Some people have a signature scent, and their home always smells like vanilla, or lavender. I love lighting soy or organic candles with subtle scents, or diffusing oils throughout the house. It is nice to be welcomed in when you arrive home, especially if you’re experiencing smoke from fires in your area. You can try a detoxifying blend on the stove with fresh herbs like Thyme and Rosemary, if you have them. It makes your house smell amazing. 

-Textures: Pretty throws and pillows that you can curl up with are perfect for a peaceful family movie night. Get the kids’ favorite snacks, get their favorite bedding, and pile up in the living room for a family evening. Choose a lighthearted movie that everyone can enjoy, and unplug from your phone for the night! 

-Food: Cooking up comfort food not only makes the house feel welcoming, it also nourishes my loved ones. When the weather gets towards fall, I like cooking savory chicken or beef dishes that fill our bodies with healthy food. One awesome website for great savory recipes is Half Baked Harvest. Her recipes are clear, have gorgeous photographs and really are step by step, so even a novice cook can make them. Check them out HERE.

-Books: Reading is so comforting, especially with pretty candles around, and books can bring such relaxation and comfort. If you’re someone with little ones, reading aloud to them is something that bring comfort to all of you, and bind you together. We really love the book We The Gardeners by Joanna Gaines, which is a really sweet book with beautiful illustrations. If you don’t have little ones in the home still, reading a good book (we loved Where the Crawdads Sing) is a way you can unwind, whether you do the audio version or the physical book!

Remember that life can change in a moment, and to treasure your loved ones close. In hard times, whether its Coronavirus or wildfires, or just the trials of life, the people you love are the ones who matter most.

Spring Favorites

“If you’ve never been thrilled to the very edges of your soul by a flower in spring bloom, maybe your soul has never been in bloom.” — Audra Foveo

The glimpses of Spring have arrived, and I couldn’t be happier to see blue skies, and all those pretty blossoms everywhere! Here on our little farm, we are all thrilled to be outside more, and leaving behind the cooped up winter doldrums. I have been diving headfirst into honing our gardens…one of my favorite parts of Spring. Here are a few of my recent favorites as we head into this beautiful season:

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-Pretty gardening items: New gardening themed items are such a practical gift or decor idea. I especially love when things are pretty and they serve a purpose. This adorable indoor watering can is the best example; you can use it for herbs or succulents, and it looks beautiful at the same time. And these pretty gloves from Anthro are just $14 and will freshen up even a job like pulling weeds!

-White greenhouse from Little Cottage Company: This is certainly an investment item, but if you love to garden and need a dedicated space to plant, grow, and enjoy the greenery, a true greenhouse is an excellent option. It will look stunning in your yard or on your property, and will provide years of lasting enjoyment! The Colonial Gable greenhouse is just so aesthetically perfect, and would accent any outdoor space. 

-Plants and Roses: The David Austin roses are some of the prettiest and most gorgeous varieties especially the Albrighton Rambler. The shade is the palest pink, and I wish I could grow a few acres of them so I can fill my whole house up! :) I also have been growing some herbs like Rosemary and Sage, which are not only practical for cooking, but also perfect as a garnish. There’s no better way to set a pretty table than adding fresh herbs to everyone’s plates (and it smells heavenly!). Lastly, if you’re looking for a festive treat to serve your guests in this weather, try this recipe from Southern Bite:

Ingredients

• 1 cup sugar

• 1 cup firmly packed basil leaves

• 6 cups water divided

• 1 1/2 cups freshly squeezed lemon juice 6 to 8 lemons

Instructions

• In a medium sauce pan, muddle the sugar and basil together with a wooden spoon. Add 2 cups of water and cook over medium heat, stirring frequently, until all of the sugar has dissolved. Remove from the heat and allow the basil to steep in the syrup until cool. Once cool strain the simple syrup into a pitcher. Add 4 cups of water and the lemon juice. Stir well. Serve over ice with a garnish of basil and lemon.

A Few Do's and Don'ts for your Home Decor

We have been doing this for several years, so many aspects of home decor come naturally. But when we are working with new clients, I love getting back to basics and reminding myself of the things I’ve learned along the way. Here is a fun little glimpse into that journey, with some do’s and don’ts of decor:

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DO pay attention to proportions: This is one of the most important aspects of design aesthetics. An enormous light fixture will dwarf things in a small space with a short ceiling. If you have a lot of oversized items, make sure you have height and space to accommodate them so that your space doesn’t look even smaller. And if you choose oversized lamps, chairs, etc, be sure to make them the focal point in the room so they get the attention they deserve.

DON’T use cheap, small linens and pillows: I cannot emphasize the difference that great pillows and linens can make when it comes to your bedroom and living space. Look for throw pillows that are substantial, that don’t collapse when you lean on them, and that are nicer fabrics like linen and cotton. I love Pottery Barn for pillows that will hold up for years with proper care and usage, but Target actually has a few really nice quality options that are under $25 each, and still look nice, especially if you have small children who are prone to spills or jumping on your couch! When it comes to bedding, Pottery Barn and West Elm really can’t be beat when it comes to lasting, soft bedding that will make you thrilled to come to bed!

DO include pops of color: Even if you really love a neutral palette, a pretty pop of color here and there can make a beautiful visual impression. The color accents don’t need to be drastic or even permanent; a plant, a bouquet, a gorgeous hardcover…they can all add a little spark of fun to any aesthetic from farmhouse to bohemian. Because I personally love taupe, whites, and cream, I love using greenery to give some colorful personality to my spaces (a fiddle leave fig or olive tree are both subtle options).

DON’T underestimate the power of rugs: A lovely, quality rug can enhance the space you’re in, but be sure to get the proportions and measurements just right. Measure the room you’re putting it in, and consider where your furniture is within the area. Make sure it’s truly large enough for a room like a living or dining room, as many people have trouble when they get a rug home from the store, and realize it’s not as large as it appeared when it was rolled up. When you’re shopping for a new rug, also look for high quality materials and a backing that will hold up for years to come.

If you are looking to refresh your personal space or home, please let us know. We would love to help you arrange and redecorate your home, so that it becomes the oasis you dream of!

Featured DIY Tip - Redfin

I recently was honored to share some decorating advice on Redfin, a real estate expertise blog. You can find the full article by clicking HERE, and can read my tip below!

I don’t know about you, but I love a good interior project during these cold wet winters. This DIY project, or as we like to call them around here at Allure with Decor, INC Projects (Inspire N Create) will give your plain walls a fresh new look.Start with a square edge baseboard of 4-10” high and then add 3” strips of wood directly to your textured walls all the way up to the ceiling (as we did here in Sweet Rose Cottage – photo by @betsyblue). Use paintable caulking on all gaps or edges and paint out in your favorite bright white. Instant character to an otherwise plain room.

Thank you Redfin for sharing my design idea! Stay tuned to their site for more expert tips!

Get (and stay) Organized this Year

If you’re working on organizing your home, you may know the three areas that are the toughest to keep tidy: the closets, the pantry, and that dreaded garage! These spaces tend to become “catch-alls”, especially if you have children, and it can be super hard to keep them up as the year wanes on. Here’s how to get a head start on making your home usable, tidy, and how to maintain the clutter-free environment!

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Start by clearing out the things you don’t use. This seems pretty obvious, but you’ll be surprised at how many things are in the crevasses and closets that you simply forgot you owned. The less items that are in the garage/pantry/closets, the less you’ll need to organize and clean, so it’s a major win to get rid of as much as you can. Begin by actually removing everything, and we mean EVERYTHING. Be sure to ask your family members before you throw all of their things away (ha!). Vacuum, sweep or mop, and scrub away any dirt in grout/hardwood/tile or carpet. You want to start with a very clean and sanitized space so you don’t have to continue moving things in and out repeatedly. 

Tackle just one space at a time: It is very easy to get overwhelmed quickly when you start this project. Instead of committing to do every closet in the house, pick just one. Spend a whole day working on the pantry, and allow a few solid days to tackle a large project like the garage. Enlist older children or your spouse to help, but delegate tasks so you’re all not hovering in one tiny space or getting in each other’s way. It actually helps if you can split it up over five weekends or five days to do two days of closets, one on the pantry, and two for the garage. Block out the time and commit to it…you’ll be so glad you did. 

Ditch the packaging in the pantry: If you’re used to keeping all the boxes/containers in your pantry, this may sound strange, but the aesthetic and organization that happens when you put your staples and food into glass or plastic bins will motivate you to keep it tidy. It also looks beautiful and cohesive in your space, and allows you to clearly see what you have on hand. We recommend Amazon, Ikea, or the Container Store for inexpensive and durable containers to get your pantry under control. I recently saw a great idea where instead of a spice cupboard, someone used a drawer! They minimized their spices to what they really used and then laid they flat in a kitchen drawer, making them easier to sort, find, and maintain, rather than rifling through a cupboard. Keep cereal, baking supplies, chips, crackers, and kid’s snacks in clear, easy to see containers, and get can racks for things like chicken broth, beans, and veggies. You will also save time by making the pantry more efficient. 

In the closets, make a system: If you have children, sort out clothing that is too big or too small, and designate a bin for each. Get rid of things with stains, items that don’t fit, and don’t forget their dressers or wardrobes in addition to their closets. If you’re using the closets to additional toy storage, figure out how to separate out both toys and clothes, so that you have it divided neatly in half (top and bottom, or left and right sides, etc.) If you can afford to, buy matching hangers so that the clothes will hang evenly (and look nicer), and purchase matching plastic bins or drawers for additional storage. If you have a larger budget and a walk-in closet, consider adding wooden shelves to provide more space for baskets and bins for hairbows, belts, hats, scarves, winter wear, etc. If your kids are past the baby stage, cycle seasonal clothes to the garage to free up space and help your children find their current items more easily. If you are organizing your own closet, follow the same steps. You may find that you hardly wear the majority of your closet, and you could donate or consign the nicer items. This purging and organizing will also save you time (which we can all use, right?!), because you will stop searching for missing shoes, certain sweaters or tops, or by being overwhelmed by the amount of clothes/decisions. 

-Beautify the storage: As we mentioned, pretty storage solutions will motivate you to keep your things in their place. Ikea has an amazing selection of white totes of various sizes, as well as metal hooks and baskets for hanging storage if your space is small. If you can’t afford a ton of new items, focus on one area at a time, as your budget allows. It is better to fully complete a single space, than to put off all of the closets/messes until you can afford them all. It is also an emotional process, because you will feel more likely to continue if you can “complete” one fully at a time! 

Beautiful storage solutions can free up the time you spend cleaning, organizing, and putting things away. This is a principal many people use when they live a minimalist lifestyle, but you don’t have to be a minimalist to appreciate and utilize these ideas! Good luck as you organize and plan out a tidier 2020!

New Year, New Start!

When you set out to pursue a dream, it can be a very lonely path. There will be those who don’t believe in you, and many people who want to tear you down along the way. But it doesn't have to be that way, and that’s what my hope is for the new year! I hope we can all recognize potential in one another as we set out in a new year, and find it in our hearts to not let our own insecurities prevent us from supporting and caring about others and their dreams (no matter how big!). As an interior designer in a small-ish town, I can see how one could feel threatened or jealous when it seems the community is small, or that the customer base is similar, but I truly believe we can all benefit from joining together instead of vying for top spot. I love collaborating with others, appreciating their individual strengths, and offering the wisdom that I’ve gained along the way! Here are a few more ways we can all be more intentional this year:

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-Be thoughtful: Look out for ways that you can help others who may be in your community or even in the same field as you. Keep your eye out for young people whom you could mentor or help get started, encourage those who are just getting started, and bring them a coffee or a note of inspiration as they begin their journey.

-Be Kind: Speak life-giving words. If someone in your field or a similar business comes up in conversation, make a point of saying something positive about them or their work. Look for easy ways to connect people like florists, photographers, or stylists, with each other, so they can help grow their business. Review and rate other vendors on Facebook, share their posts, and include them in your blogs, so they can get credit for their hard work and beautiful efforts!

-Be intentional: Set aside time in your week or month to give back to the community from your own business, even if you don’t get any monetary or physical gain from it. Consider donating time to a charity event, helping raise money for a worthy cause, or lending your talents to someone in a time of need, such as at a funeral or a family event where finances are tight. Whether it’s every Tuesday, where you donate an hour or two to someone, or even just once a month, you will find that giving back truly is the best reward.

As people set out on their big dreams and new goals for the year, be sure to find kindness and encouragement for them as they get started. After all, you’d want others in your corner cheering you on, as well! If you do this, I think you will find others will want to support you too. That’s true community.

A New Season!

It’s hard to believe, but Spring has come to a close. Between vacationing in England and France, and working on our family farm, this season in our lives has flown by. While our travel time was absolutely dreamy, it’s always nice to be home. When the seasons change, I typically change over decor and inspiration in our personal spaces as well, and this warm weather has me feeling extra inspired. Here’s a few things I’ve been up to…

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-Pulling weeds to no end in my gardens: I recently found a helpful article by HGTV that gave me some tips for making this dreaded chore go faster. With our expansive land and garden spaces, there are plenty of weeds to keep me busy! My favorite new tips: to place mulch over areas where there is a lot of blank spaces for weeds to grow and expand, and to carry a mini trowel with a triangular head to really dig out the small weeds before they can spread their seeds!

-Fending off hawks and trimming roses: I definitely find one of these tasks more inviting than the other (I think it’s pretty obvious which one!). We have found hawks trying to prey on our beloved chickens, and one almost got to my favorite, Rosie. I like tending to my heirloom roses much better than trying to ward off the wildlife, and carefully prune them to make sure they grow strong and healthy. 

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-Changing over my home decor to something lighter: I love things light and bright, especially as the weather gets warmer, and I’ve also added small vases of pink roses to all my tablescapes. I love having access to so many pretty blooms, right outside my own door. I have added in Jolie Marche pillows (we now carry these gorgeous accents) in pretty hues of pink and blue to coordinate and help things feel very cohesive and pulled together. After all, the best inspiration is always found in nature itself. And as a final finishing touch, I have added citrus scented candles. I love finding organic ones, as I am pretty picky about what I bring into my home and around my family, and this one fits the bill perfectly. 

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Why to Have an Interior Design Budget (and stick to it!)

The word “budget” is one I heard frequently, and usually it’s used in negative terms, but it can truly be a positive idea. Having a budget is something that can eliminate stress, negate conflict in marriages, and keep you on track to meet your financial goals. It can also help anyone you hire, such as an interior designer (like me!), and can really give a clear picture of what you’re wanting and what’s realistic. Without a budget, these things are hard to gauge. Here are five reasons to make and keep your design parameters:

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Know what you’re really working with: Sometimes, a client doesn’t realize how much something truly costs. They may under or overestimate a piece of furniture or even how much paint they will need, and it can skew their perception of how much they have to work with. This isn’t their fault, because it isn’t their field of expertise, but it makes it harder for me to help execute their dreams without a clear financial boundary. Having a budget means we won’t get to the end of a project, and run out of finances.

A budget makes sure your true priorities are reached: If you have a major goal of getting a new couch, and then using the rest of the funds to decorate around it, then a budget makes sure you get that couch, and don’t run out before you find the right one. A clear budget lets you or your designer know what you truly MUST have, and how to allocate the funds appropriately.

A clear cut budget also allows to obstacles to come up: If we hit a major snag in your design, such as a structural problem or an emergency, a clear budget will allow for issues and obstacles, and it won’t be a huge crisis to your pocketbook. It’s always great for clients to have a little wiggle room with their finances, and it helps anyone you hire to make sure everything gets taken care of. Sometimes a client also discovers that they don’t love an aspect, or that they want something more pricy than they originally thought, and a budget lets you make those changes without much stress. 

Sticking to your budget won’t derail your long term financial plans: If you are currently trying to fund a large remodel, or you are saving up for a purchase (or just making a nest egg), sticking to your budget will help you breathe a little easier, and can get you one step closer to where you hope to be. It also cuts out the stress of loading everything onto a credit card with high interest, or taking out loans you know you cannot afford. You can rest easy when your design project is done, whether you hire someone or DIY, and know that you stuck to the amount you had available!

Setting Your Thanksgiving Table

Setting your table for the holidays is so important. It might seem like a small detail, but the table (like the kitchen) can be the heart of the home. Especially during the holidays, meals and gatherings play a huge role in building community and hospitality, and we believe they can be an expression of your personal style, too! We are busy dreaming up our holiday tablescapes around here, and wanted to share our favorite pieces to inspire you. 

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The Leila dishes from Pottery Barn caught our eye this season, because of their blend of sophistication and rustic elegance. They have a hand-applied glaze, and they look stunning paired with copper accents and natural wood pieces. Don’t forget the basic pieces you’ll need for a table setting, including matching flatware, and plenty of linens. You can forego a tablecloth if you want a more rustic look, but a pretty burgundy or mustard looks beautiful for Thanksgiving or harvest dinners. We also love the Scarlett dishes, which have a subtle and elegant grey/blue pattern. I’d pair these with shimmering silver accents and flatware for a dressier event. 

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Marble is not only beautiful, but the new pieces from Williams Sonoma also are functional. You can find their whole collection of serving trays and cutting boards HERE, and they look gorgeous against colors like navy and gold for an unexpected pairing. If your wallet can’t quite handle the Williams Sonoma price tags, Target came out with a similar collection, and most of their pieces are under $50. Their pieces are a great way to begin introducing marble into your decor at an affordable price. This beautiful tray is just $19.99, and would look perfect for your next cheese and wine appetizer.  

Stay right here on our blog for the latest style news and tips, and how to incorporate them into your everyday life and home! Ar you having a large party or event this holiday season? Allure with Decor offers personalized styling and event decor,  in addition to interior design. Let us know via our CONTACT page if you would like to book your event today.  Hurry, as holiday schedules fill quickly!

Decorating a Room with High Ceilings

If you have a room with a vaulted ceiling, it can feel insurmountable to decorate it correctly. You know I'm always at the ready to work with clients to find the right pieces for their home, but I also wanted to share my best tips for working with vaulted ceilings today. If you're someone on a budget, or who struggles to shop for and acquire the "right" pieces, this one is for you!

-Think about the light: Many homes with vaulted ceilings are also blessed with tall, open windows. This is a big blessing when it comes to decor, because flooding areas with natural light is always a positive! If you decide to add additional lighting (which we recommend), look for large, substantial chandeliers or fixtures that won't be dwarfed. You want something that will make a true impact when dealing with such large areas. 

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-Add warmth and lots of cozy elements: Long, beautiful drapes in a neutral tone can be just the thing to bring the eye towards the middle of the room and not always to the ceiling. We love the idea of white or cream colored curtains, made of thicker linen or even velvet, if you're feeling adventurous. Drapes tend to look nicest in dining areas or common areas of the home, and can even add actual warmth during the winter (which helps with heating those rooms with high ceilings!). 

-Use the right paint color: White and pretty cream shades are ideal for high ceilings...they work well with natural light, and they act as a neutral palette to decorate in the style you prefer. Black and white with a modern farmhouse appeal is a very popular trend right now, yet is timeless enough to last for years. 

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-Choose your anchor pieces wisely: While you may love a shorter lamp, or a a tiny coffee table, these items can easily be drowned by the height of your room. Mix your smaller, less impactful pieces with heftier items like a sturdy wooden lamp, tall plant, or large armoire. Tall pieces should be the ones your eyes go to first (along with your lighting), to make your guests feel the space is "evenly laid out". Don't forget to place artwork at appropriate levels where guests can see them, even if it seems tempting to place them really high on the wall. 

-Add stunning wooden beams to your vaulted ceiling. Beams are one of the best ways to make a strong visual impact in an enormous space. Whether you choose painted or natural wood, be sure to have them professionally installed and tested for weight bearing and stability before planning around them! They add a true bit of country and rustic charm, and look incredibly beautiful in open concept homes.

A few Favorite Retailers for the Home

When it comes to shopping and sourcing items for my design projects, there's not really a single place where I find items. I work hard to find just the right chair, table or piece of art, and sometimes, that means hunting it down at a few different stores (or maybe a dozen! Ha!) I have made a list of some of my favorite home stores and retailers below. This post is not sponsored or endorsed by any of the brands below:

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-Pottery Barn: Always a classic, this store has both brick-and-mortar locations, as well as online inventory, which means you can find nearly everything you may need. Rather than purchasing their "entire room looks", I like to choose some larger, more dramatic pieces to accent design plans. They also have amazing light fixtures, throw blankets that hold up in the washing machine, and occasionally, really unique wooden furniture that you can't find anywhere else. Lastly, their duvet covers hold up incredibly well, for years and years, without shrinkage. 

-West Elm: If you want a lighting fixture or chandelier that will be a total showstopper and the center of your home, West Elm is the place for you. They have stunning lighting fixtures, although the price tags make them a true investment. Their sofa and sectional couches are also beautiful, not too trendy, and made to last for generations.

-Target: Yes, it's true! Not every item at Target is well-made, but for smaller items like the occasional throw pillow, faux plant, and anything from the Magnolia collection, it's a great option and very budget-friendly. Avoid furniture and large pieces, as they are often made of particle board and the paint chips off very quickly. 

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-Home Goods: If you have the time to dig through a bargain marketplace like Home Goods, you can find some treasures. When you're searching, look for quality fabrics and nice frames, artwork for children's rooms or places where you may want to change it up in a year or so, and smaller items like candles and vases. We have also found gorgeous faux trees and larger plants, such as faux Fig leaf trees in baskets for under $100. It takes some digging through the unorganized aisles to find the right items, but it's possible!

-Thrift vintage stores and yard sales: When you're on the hunt for something very specific, or something vintage or retro, thrift shops can be a goldmine. We suggest taking a full day to hit up larger thrift stores, and go with a specific list of what you're needing. Don't forget to measure your space beforehand, especially if you're trying to find large furniture items that need to be in an assigned room or area of the home. Bring along a tape measure and notebook, and never be afraid to haggle down prices if you're yard-saleing. Estate Sales can also be a great place for solid wood furniture and large armoires. 

If you keep an open mind, you can find gems for your space just about anywhere. You can even do it in a tight budget, if you're willing to put the time and effort in. 

How to Make a Rental Feel like Home

When you’re renting, there is a feeling of your house not being quite yours. Whether you’re renting for a short time or for years, it’s never fun to feel like you’re always waiting for the next step. It can be even harder to make your rental property feel warm, cozy, and full of your personality. You want your rental to feel like home, and for it to feel like YOU and your family’s space to relax and unwind. Here are our best tips to making your rental space feel homey without losing your deposit or making changes that can’t be undone:

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-Peel and stick decals: These are awesome for infusing some design and inspiration into spaces like small bathrooms, kids rooms, or large blank walls, especially if you can’t paint. You can even do peel and stick backsplashes. Be sure to test out the adhesive and removal process, so that you don’t damage any paint when you move out of your rental. We also love things like little polka dots, name monograms, and simple, neutral patterns to give your blank walls a little panache!

-Utilize stand-alone shelves and furniture: If you are hesitant to nail things into the wall, try stand-alone shelves (ladder style ones), and over the toilet cupboards to increase your storage space, and give you the look of bookshelves and mantle shelves without the commitment and damage to the wall. We like the look of this one for small bathrooms. Aim for higher, taller pieces for more design impact in small apartments and townhomes, because they will draw the eye upward. 

-Mirrors and wall hangings: If you do decide to hang items on the walls, try using the 3M removable tape and hangers that come off without damage. Mirrors and large paintings can make a big impression, especially in small rooms that don’t have a lot of natural light or windows in them. Look for round or square mirrors in neutral colors, like distressed wood, white, and dark wood tones that will go with your decor even if you change color palettes.

-Add cozy elements: If you want to make your rental feel cozy on a budget, look for textured throw blankets, pretty pillows, and curtains. Look for curtains that are the proper length (ones that are too short or bunched up on the ground will draw the eye to that first and will look cheapy), and use neutral tones to make a small space look larger. We love places like HomeGoods and TJ Maxx for inexpensive items that look more high-end. 

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-Incorporate plants and fresh flowers: Purchasing fresh flowers is a great way to add a little life to your apartment or rental home, and also can add a pop of color. Faux plants in little pots are another way to get some greenery into your rental without the upkeep of real ones and the watering duties that come with them! If you have a patio or backyard area, large potted plants and trees (faux) can add a little more personality as well.

No matter where you call home, these tips can help your rental feel like the place you can’t wait to come home to!

Best of Target Decor under $50!

Springtime and summer is filled with extra expenses: camping, extra snacks, and sports camps, just to name a few. So when it comes to sprucing up little decor pieces around my house, I love to keep it budget-friendly in this season. As a mom, I think we all know how often we do a "Target run", so I wanted to highlight some of their very adorable and affordable pieces. They have a brand new line called Opal House, and of course, some awesome Magnolia inspired items. Ready? Let's go!

Opal House is very trendy, and has a boho/Anthropologie vibe. Some pieces are a bit trendy and cheap looking for my personal style and taste, but there are some true gems in the collection as well. These cute mugs would make darling teacher gifts, and they look just like Anthro for only $6 per mug. We also love their serving dishes, which are all under $20, and have a boho summer feel that's perfect for hosting friends on your back porch.

Hearth and Hand by Magnolia is a little more my speed, and I always have to zip by the aisles quickly, so everything doesn't land in my cart! Here are a few favorites: This steel punched tray is just $35 and it can go basically anywhere in your home! We think it'd look awesome on your dining table, or serving drinks on the patio. It'll also wipe clean and be useful year round because of the natural color. For your table or mantle, you'll also love this darling vase. The edged lip is classic and timeless. 

When it comes to a versatile item, if you have $35, check out this adorable Threshold pillow with timeless ticking stripes. It's not made of outdoor fabric, but you could put it on a settee that's under cover in case of rain. We also think it looks great piled up with floor cushions around a fireplace, or on a bed that's a neutral palette. This white eyelet pillow has great texture, and of course, you know I love all things cream and white! I hope these ideas have given you inspiration on how to add some spring and summertime flair to your space without going over your budget or spending very much money!

Stay tuned to our blog for the best money-saving and inspiration tips!

5 Distressed Furniture Pieces you Need in your Home

One of the hallmarks of the farmhouse aesthetic is a rustic, vintage look. If you’re at all familiar with my blog, then you know that I absolutely love this aesthetic, and have for quite some time. I love the challenge of turning a modern home into a vintage farmhouse paradise, and in the years that I’ve spent transforming 21st century styles into rustic wonderlands I’ve realized that one of the easiest ways to give your home a quick dose of farmhouse is in distressed furniture. It’s the perfect addition to your budding rustic decor, and they’re either easy to find, or to make (figure out how to do that here). Here’s five that you need in your home!

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Chest of Drawers

You can find one in every home. They’re the backbone to clothing management, and they’re often one of the biggest pieces of furniture in a room. What’s great about their popularity is that you can find them being sold (or given away) just about anywhere. This is great for those who are looking for a distressed set because you’ll often come across them that way, requiring little effort on your part to make it just the way you want. You’ll find them in thrift stores and craigslist, or if you’d like a professional take on the distressed look, on websites like Hayneedle and Wayfair. The cheapest option will always be finding a set that’s seen some better days, and applying a bit of elbow grease to finish them up to your specifications.

Vintage Chandelier

Switching out your kitchen lights for a vintage chandelier can add a wonderful touch of farmhouse to your home while staying well within even the lowest budget. Thrift and antique stores are some of the best places to look for these, and they usually don’t require much of a hunt to find a great one. They’ll often be distressed metal, which is the perfect style for a farmhouse look. If you’re looking for a specific style, Etsy has a great selection, ranging from sculpted metal to rustic wood chandeliers, with some even utilizing unique styles like mason jars, or funnels! They’re great light fixtures to add some rustic character to your home.

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Distressed Dining Table

Families are bonded around the dinner table. It’s one of the most important pieces of furniture in your home, and if you’re just starting to create your farmhouse, it’s a great place to start from. Finding one in a thrift store won’t be as easy, but sites like craigslist often have ones that are already distressed, or are ready for your handiwork. This is a wonderful place to show off your creativity: you can get a matching set of table and chairs, or you can add a pop of color with painted chairs with that same distressed style. It all comes down to how you’d like it, and in the end, that’s always the best way.

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Rustic Hutch

What better way is there to display all of your vintage dishes and glasses? The hutch is one of the most popular pieces in homes of all styles, which means you’ll be able to find one that you fall in love with fairly simply. All of the above mentioned places - thrift stores, craigslist, etsy, etc. - will have numerous pieces with lots of character already in them. There are so many styles that really embody the farmhouse aesthetic, with wonderful carved wood and glass panes, which gives you full creative expression to choose one that fits the rest of your unique farmhouse decor.

Milk Paint

Alright, so this isn’t a furniture piece, but it’s key if you’re a DIY-minded creative who wants to make your own distressed and colorful style. This means you can transform any piece you find into a classic farmhouse staple, all from your own hands. If you’re new to milk paint, this is a great blog explaining what it is, how to get it, and some beautiful examples of what you can do with it. Milk paint really gives you the creative freedom to make your home your own.

Those are just a few of the many farmhouse pieces you can add to your home to make it warmer, and bring the whole family together. I hope it helps you make your farmhouse home truly yours!

De-Clutter and Simplify for Spring

When the blue skies come out...I head inside. Why? Well, I start spring cleaning! Now, for a busy working mom like myself, it's hard to find time to de-clutter, and it seems we have an influx of things always coming IN, rather than going out. But, I love the feeling of breathing a little easier and clearing out things we aren't using. Every spring, the urge to pare down our belongings and clutter comes on strong and I love the way it motivates me! Here are some of my best tips for clearing out the things you don't need, and giving yourself more room to be creative, feel more focused, and bring more peace to your home. After all, less stuff means less time spent stressing over, and cleaning, all the things. 

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Make three piles: I like to use laundry baskets for this, but you can also use something like large paper bags or wicker baskets. Label them TOSS, DONATE, and SELL. I tackle one room at a time, such as the kitchen, or a bedroom, and divide any clutter items into these three piles. Selling items on craigslist or Facebook takes quite a lot of time, so remember to be realistic, and don't save something to sell it, if you know you never will. Donation items should be in working order, and anything broken or yucky should go right into the trash pile.

Transport donations or sale items immediately: I've learned that the secret to really getting those piles out of my house, is to do it right away. Otherwise, they sit and I either change my mind, or end up moving the piles around the house. I use the same philosophy for yard sales: when things don't sell, we load them up right away to a donation spot, so we don't have to bring them back into the house. If you're looking for places to donate that aren't the typical Goodwill or salvation army, consider donating to a women's shelter or somewhere similar.

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Schedule time to de-clutter: Actually writing a day or time down on a calendar helps really ensure the job gets done. Find childcare if you need to, and block out a few hours to get uninterrupted progress made. Ideally, you could sort or toss things once a month, to make it more manageable, but every three months is also a good plan. I read in an article once that when you schedule an hour of cleaning, also schedule an hour of self care, because that is how you keep your house and your mind clear! I thought that was very wise advice!

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Do small tasks daily to stay ahead: Set aside 10 minute a day to deal with the day-to-day clutter. Sort through your kids' backpacks or school bags, toss junk mail, clean out your purse or work bag, and weed out things from the fridge. Just these simple things will keep your days running smoothly, and you'll feel more productive and less bogged down. 

Making Your Home a Haven of Self-Care

We know, life is stressful. Your home shouldn't be. But how do you curate a home that makes you walk in and immediately drop all your stress and burdens? That's what today's blog is all about. Here are five ways to help your home become the place you always want to be:

Diffuse essential oils: Even if you don't believe in the medicinal properties of essential oils, they smell delightful and can really lift your mood. We recommend lemon or lavender oils for a very relaxing feel. They are also less toxic than some candles, which may be great for those with asthma or who are sensitive to strong candle scents. 

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Mix up textures: We like the idea of mixing up textures in your living spaces, especially with pillows and throws. It's no secret that we love a good throw blanket, because they add instant coziness to a space. Plus, little ones love making forts or beds with them, and they're great for curling up with a good book or a movie! If you need a new throw, try this affordable, machine washable twin blanket from Target. It's bigger than a traditional blanket and extra warm. It comes in plenty of pretty neutral colors.

Get some fresh magazines and books to read: In the digital age, it can be hard to step away from your phone and laptop, but a good book can be just the ticket. Check out Oprah's book club for some great reads that will keep you inspired and expand your mind. A magazine like Real Simple or Southern Living is a relaxing read for a long bath, and you don't have to be too worried if the pages slip into the bathwater!

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Try a bath bomb: The bath bombs from LUSH are our absolute favorites. They are cruelty free and made with organic ingredients that are good for your skin. They are definitely a pricey luxury, but you will love the way they instantly relax your muscles and make you feel capable of handling anything that comes your way!

Change out your photos: Studies show looking at photos can improve our mood and make us feel more energized! Swap out old photos in the frames and shelves in your home for newer memories, and make your home a place where your family can always look around and feel loved! Order fresh canvases or framed prints for photos that have been languishing in drawers or on your computer or smartphone...they will definitely make your home feel more personal and relaxing!